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What can I write about me, well I am simple, considerate and easy going. I am married for some unknown amount of years, I have a son, who is a toddler and always keeps me on my toes, so, you see, my time is very valuable and taken up wisely. I am a social worker by profession as well an aspiring lawyer. I have a Bachelors and a Masters degree, I am trying to reach that doctorate very persistently, but I am slowly but surely getting there. However, more importantly, I am a firm believer in the power that education afford us. I am also an expert in dating/relationship coaching and development chat with me  here

I've learnt to be very mindful of the ever smiling faces than the wrath of a man who does not show his anger.

No matter the circumstances, my dreams will always require the participation of God because I believe that there is never a day that God gives you nothing. The most dangerous person in my life is the one who shifts my focus from God and those who always are in the want.

My success will only be at where I am celebrated, not where I am merely negotiated into and based on experience I have come to understand that the success elevator is always out of order and one has to use the stairs, one step at a time. In life nothing is gained without a loss (opportunity cost) It is not practice that makes perfect but it is perfect practice that brings perfection.

To me real success is 80% attitude and 20% skill, knowledge and planning and i'm convinced that the major enemy of personal genius is self-doubt and fear.

Failure is part of the process of success, and people who avoid failure also avoid success.

Talent is a gift, but character a choice. Material abundance without character is the surest way to destruction. I can change my whole life and the attitude of people around me simply by changing myself (attitude).

knowing that my mess is my message to my generation, i live by the code that past hurts can either make you bitter or better; the choice is yours.

If you don't learn the early lessons in life on time, they get harder and pain is one way the universe gets our attention.

To understand the power and essence of relationships is very crucial in my life. And i know that I should not make any promise when I'm seized by joy, and write any letter when seized by anger. I may forget what I have done but those I hurt never will. Life is too short to permit the wrong person into my circle of influence because i do like the idea of being a blessing and also being blessed too.

I joined HP last year and only got serious about my writing two months ago. I have realized that my writing has potentials and I could really share my knowledge and experience with others.

Whenever you have the time please feel free to check out my blog at blogger.

I am just an average lady, full of life and fortitude. I am grateful, elegant, and down right humane. I love a good laugh and love things just simple.

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My favorite quotations are: "opportunity once lost, can never be regain"

"I see all those who are for abortion has already been born" Ronald Regan.

"The heights by great men reached and kept were not attained by sudden flight, but they, while their companions slept, were toiling upward in the night." - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

"One thing you must come to realize in life is that not everyone will wish you well" - Dan Rather

"We live in a culture that discourages empathy. A culture that too often tells us our principle goal in life is to be rich, thin, young, famous, safe, and entertained". Barack Obama

"I said to my self, I said self and self said mmm" - Mr. Brown